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Day 2

Are You Getting Used to Sin?

By Al Menconi

What would you think of a man who spends his evenings prowling through neighborhoods peeking into bedroom windows, watching couples having sex? What if he shares his voyeuristic exploits with his friends, and claims that his "habit" is simply normal entertainment? Would you consider this perverted?

Think about it. Isn't that what much of today's entertainment does? Doesn’t it often put our mind's eye into somebody's bedroom so we can watch their sexual activity? Now I've never seen a porno movie, but from what I’ve heard, it's nothing more than a series of sex-scenes strung together for about an hour-and-a-half. Is it less of a porno movie if they show sex-scenes for only a half-hour? Is it less pornographic if it's cut to fifteen minutes? How about if they just have a couple of sex scenes?

Do you see what I'm getting at? Many of today's TV shows and movies contain immoral sexual behavior as part of the story line. It may have a legitimate story to tell, but do they include sex scenes to excite the viewer? Are you allowing your mind to "peek into someone's bedroom?" Are you acting like the pervert we just described?

How does this affect us? Romans 12:1-2 commands us not to be conformed to this world's morals and values, but to be transformed by the renewing of our minds. How do we know if we are conforming to the values of this world? One way is to examine our entertainment. Are we entertained by immorality, violence, and profanity? Are we just excusing it away, rationalizing that it’s normal because everyone else watches it too? If so, we are learning to conform to the world's values.

I've noticed that I have learned to accept more and more immorality in my entertainment. I remember years ago reviewing the movie Superman II and being offended by all the violence and mayhem. I was especially disturbed that Superman had sex with Lois Lane . I was sitting next to a little boy who was laughing and cheering at all the destruction and lusting at the sex scene. At the time, I was wondering what was wrong with his mother to let him watch this. But when I saw the same movie again recently on television, it didn't bother me. It seemed normal. Like that little boy's mother, I'd gotten used to it, which is another way of saying that I am learning to conform to the world's values.

We can use the acronym CAN to explain this phenomenon. Whatever is Common in the entertainment media is considered Acceptable. And if it is acceptable in society, it must be Normal . Common, Acceptable, N ormal . But it is often not acceptable or normal in God's eyes! I am ashamed to say that it was becoming more acceptable and normal in my life. Has this acceptance of immorality invaded your life, as well?

 Reflection: What CAN we do?

  • Remember, we are in a spiritual war with unseen powers for control of our mind. The battle is for our mind! "The sinful mind is hostile to God" Romans 8:7

  • Resolve, not to entertain yourself with the godless values of this world. "Don't let others spoil your faith and joy with their philosophies…" Colossians 2:8

  • Replace, the empty philosophies of this world with Christian values through Christian music. "Set your mind on things above instead of on things below." Colossians 3:1, 2

 Response: Survey your weekly TV guide and m ake a list of programs that you would normally watch if you weren’t on The Full Tilt Media Challenge for 30 days. Put a check next to the programs you believe may be “teaching” worldly values; put a dash next to the programs you believe have no values one way or the other. Put a plus next to the programs that help you focus on life from a Godly perspective. Which category is the largest? The smallest? Is this an indicator of your spiritual walk before you started The Full TiltMedia Challenge?

Verse of the Day: Colossians 3:2

COLOSSIANS 3:2 (KJV) "Set your affection on things above, not on the things on the earth."

Commercials are very effective means for selling products and ideas. Much of our free enterprise system is founded on the belief that commercials do sell products. Advertisers know that for every dollar spent in commercial advertising, more will return in product sold. So, what’s the point?

Even the best commercials can't guarantee that you will run right out and buy the product, but they are effective at persuading viewers to desire what advertisers are selling. Advertisers consider their commercial a success if they can just get the viewer to think about their product for awhile. If you think about it long enough, eventually you may focus your thoughts – “affections” – on what they are trying to sell you.

In the same way, much of our entertainment can be thought of as a commercial selling a philosophy. Music videos, television shows, movies, and video games are all "advertising" a way to see life – from God’s view or man’s view. In many cases, it's their brand of immorality. And just like commercials, they probably won't make you run right out and become immoral immediately, but it could make you see immorality in an attractive light.

This verse says that for God’s people, there are two basic responses to the world and its entertainment: 1) We are able to control our affections (what we desire) and 2) that we should control them.

How about your entertainment? Does it get you to think about life from man’s point of view? If you keep thinking that you can live life without God, you will eventually believe that you can. Are you being sold on an idea that will ultimately undermine your faith in Jesus and Jo y of your salvation? That’s why God commands us to set our affections on things above, so we won’t buy into the lie.

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