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Day 22

Learning Teaching

By Al Menconi

Did you know that research shows as many as 70-75% of young people raised in Christian homes will NOT live for Jesus as adults? How can this be? Either we don't have the Truth in Jesus, or we are conveying this Truth improperly. I believe it’s the latter.

Some of our best directions to teach the Word of God are found in Deuteronomy 6:5-7. Notice that the passage is a directive to adults to teach the laws and principles of God’s Truth to their children. This implies that the adults know something of God’s Truth before they can teach it. So while the passage seems to be aimed at children, it actually applies to adults first – and not just parents, but ALL adults.

If you were not taught the principles of God this way, it’s never too late to start learning. And whether you are a parent or grandparent, a single mom or a single guy, there is always someone you can use this process with: a neighbor, a friend, a fiancé, a relative, even yourself! Well, you get the idea.

So how does this process work? We must start by choosing to love the Lord with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength, and keep the commandments of God in our heart. Next we are told to "…talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up."

This verse advises us to teach biblical principles at four specific times: when we sit down with friends and family, when we walk together, when we lie down, and when we rise up. Is that the case in your home? If you are like most Christians, you are doing just the opposite! When you’re sitting at home, what is usually taking place? You are probably watching television or eating, or both. That's right; when we are sitting at home the television is doing most of the teaching! TV can be a very effective teaching device, but its teachings are often against the commands of God.

How about walking along the road? In today's society, we don't often use walking as a means of transportation. We drive our cars. What is happening when we are in our car (I mean, besides the kids fighting)? We are usually listening to music on the car stereo system. And what is the teaching that is taking place? For the most part, the music of today is teaching a philosophy that is against biblical values. Another missed opportunity!

How about "when you lie down and when you get up?" In other words when you go to bed at night and get up in the morning. The majority of us are watching the news, or Leno or Letterman before we go to bed. And when we get up in the morning, it's usually the news, local talk radio, or our favorite rock music.

Think about it. Even if the television and radio programs weren't spewing out philosophies that are against biblical values, God says these are prime times for His people to learn to love Him.

When you are eating, driving, going to bed, and waking up, are you using that time to impress the values of God on your children, your family, your friends, yourself? Or is the Enemy getting all the best class time?

Reflections: Have you ever tried this approach to teaching biblical values? Does it seem too weird or radical? How is your family’s faith in Christ? How is the joy of their salvation? Are you hungry enough to try something new and radical, just because the Bible says so?

Response: Why don’t you set the pace for your family by listening to Christian music when you get up in the morning, when you go to bed at night, and when you are in your car? Also, make sure that the television is off when your family sits down for dinner.

Verse of the Day: Ephesians 5:19 / Colossians 3:16

"Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord."

Most Christians don’t realize the significance of these parallel verses. They are not suggestions. They are commands! When God gives a command, we should follow it. And it must really be important for God to say a command twice! If you aren’t singing psalms, hymns and/or spiritual songs from your heart to the Lord, you are being disobedient. Period!

The next question is, why does God care? I believe we can see the answer to that question in the verses that immediately follow these passages. We are told to always give thanks, be submissive one to another, love without reservation, and obey the authority over us. Those commands are medicine for our spiritual lives, but they are difficult “pills” for most of us to swallow. Christian music can coat these bitter pills with a "spoonful of sugar" to help the medicine go down easier.

One important reason for us to sing in our hearts to the Lord is to help us be willing to fulfill the commands that conform us to the image of His Son, Jesus Christ – especially in giving thanks in all things.

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