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Day 4

To Catch a Mocking Bird

By Al Menconi

When I was a little boy, I was fascinated with birds. I really wanted to catch one. I don’t know why. Why does a five-year-old want to do anything? One day I asked my mother how to catch a bird. She made it sound so simple. All I had to do was put some salt on its tail and grab it! Don’t ask me where she got this idea. It was probably just her way of keeping me busy and out of her hair.

I still remember propping up the cardboard box with a stick, and spreading bread crumbs under the box. I tied a string to the stick and hid behind a bush nearby, holding the string in one hand and a saltshaker in the other. My mother got her wish. I was out of her hair for hours (it was probably minutes, but it felt like hours), as I waited for a bird to walk into my clever little trap!

Of course, I never came close to actually catching a bird. However, I did eventually learn a valuable lesson. Much later in life, I discovered that God had written this lesson down in Proverbs 1:17: When a bird sees a trap being set, it stays away” (New Living Translation). I think the birds in my neighborhood must have been up on the telephone wires watching me with my box and bread crumbs and salt shaker - laughing their beaks off! There was no way they were going to get caught in a trap that obvious!

How does this apply to today’s entertainment? Colossians 2:8 warns us not to let others spoil our faith and joy with their philosophies, wrong and shallow answers based on men’s thoughts and ideas instead of on what Christ has taught. Isn’t that what the majority of today’s entertainment is? Some man or woman’s thoughts and ideas set to a tune or put on a screen? If these ideas are against what Christ taught, and we continue to entertain ourselves with them, the Bible says they will eventually undermine our faith and joy in Christ.

Have you ever pictured today’s entertainment as crumbs? That is, crumbs Satan uses to trap us? Think about it. The world of entertainment is constantly setting out crumbs of “sensational fun” and “vicarious thrills” in those clever boxes we call radios, TV’s, and VCRs. All we have to do is join in with them and consume their values and ideas. But read Proverbs 1:10-19 carefully. God warns us that if sinners try to entice us, we should have the sense to stay away. Don’t do it! It’s a trap!

Reflection: Do you tend to flee temptation or flirt with it? Have you ever considered that channel surfing is a way of flirting with temptation? How about just casually surfing the net? Have you ever been led into immoral or unbiblical entertainment by following some seemingly “harmless crumbs?” Do we flee temptation, or do we dance under the box picking up Satan’s crumbs? Do we have enough sense to stay away? Even the birds are smart enough to flee such an obvious trap. Are we?

Response: Think about a time you were “led into temptation” – although it may seem to have happened all at once, think about whether there were actually some steps that led to your falling into the trap. Number the steps and/or detail some of the “bread crumbs” that led to your “capture”. At what point should you have stayed away? At what point(s) could you have avoided capture?

Verse of the Day: Psalm 1:1-2

"Blessed is the man who walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful. But his delight is the law of the Lord; and in His law doth he meditate day and night." (NAS)

Notice the progression of the traveler as he gets more and more caught up in sin. At first he starts walking in the counsel of the ungodly. Then he stops and stands listening more intently. Finally he sits down and gets comfortable with the scornful mockers and the ungodly fools.

Isn’t this the progression for those who are caught up in worldly entertainment? At first it’s just a casual and occasional interest. “They’re good at what they do and besides, it doesn’t affect me!” Then it becomes more and more important to them. “I’m going to their concert. I never miss watching their TV show. It’s only one sex scene and it’s done tastefully.” Until they finally identify wholeheartedly with the values presented. “What’s wrong with sex before marriage? It’s only a little profanity. I have their poster on my wall because I really like what they stand for.”

This verse goes on to say that happiness is more than just staying away from evil. Our Christian walk is not indicated as much by what we stay away from, as in what we delight (take pleasure) in. We are encouraged to delight ourselves in the law of the Lord day and night. We can do this by studying and memorizing Scripture.

Another enjoyable way to delight in His Word is by filling our hearts with Christian music. When we listen with our hearts, we will begin to see that Christian music is much more than mere entertainment. It can also be a means to refocus our mind to be more like Christ and to see life from His point of view. What do you delight in? Every so often people tell me they don’t listen to any kind of music, Christian or secular. What a shame! One of the most enjoyable ways to delight yourself in the Word of God is to add a tune to it (Christian music).

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