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Day 9

Is the Joke on You?

By Al Menconi

One of the most popular teen movies in recent years is the gross-out flick, American Pie. It is the story of four high school seniors who make a pact to lose their virginity before they graduate. It features some of the crudest sexual humor ever put on screen. Even some of the movie reviewers couldn't believe how prurient the themes were, but they still gave it a highly recommended review. Some of the sexual situations were so offensive I can't even mention them. That's how bad it was!

It was so bad, it was popular! It was so popular, they made popular sequels!

As I read the interviews and reviews, I was bothered to find out that three of the main characters claim to be Christians. How disappointing! These young men had an opportunity to make a statement of faith by identifying with Christ and choosing not to be in such a disgusting movie. But they chose their career over their morality. One of the boys justified his actions with, "It is a character on the screen, not me!" In other words, it's just a movie, it doesn’t affect me. Even the movie reviewer for Rolling Stone writer couldn't understand how a Christian could be identified with such a ground breaking, sexually crude movie. (RS, August 19, 1999)

Before we condemn these young men for their behavior, however, ask yourself if you've ever watched a movie or television program that was morally offensive? If so, then aren’t you just as guilty as the young men who acted in American Pie?

Let me explain my reasoning with a story of two boys: Billy and Johnny. Billy is telling Johnny gross stories on the playground at recess. Billy tells a dirty joke and Johnny laughs. Billy tells another and Johnny laughs again. Billy laces the next one with a lot of profanity to make it even funnier than the first two. And again Johnny laughs. The bell rings and the boys go back to class. Before class can get started, Johnny tattles, "Billy was telling dirty stories on the playground!"

What do you suppose Billy will say in his defense? That's right, "Yeah, but Johnny was laughing!" In other words, "He is just as guilty as I am because he was laughing along with me!"

What’s true for Billy and Johnny is just as true for us. When the entertainment media shows us immoral pictures and tell us dirty stories and we passively smile and enjoy them, aren’t we just as guilty as Johnny? After all, we are paying to help make immorality popular. You see, when Hollywood tells a dirty joke, and we buy it, the joke’s really on us!

Reflection: Have you ever thought much about your sense of humor? What shapes it? What do you laugh at? What did you think was funny when you were younger? Is it still funny today? Has your sense of humor changed much since then? What changed it?

Response: Make a list of some of your favorite sit-coms. Make another list of some of your favorite movies that could be described as comedies. What percentage of the humor of the programs on your list is based on sexual situations? On lies and deception, or on a premise of deliberate dishonesty? How much of the humor is based on ‘put-down’ jokes and insult humor? What does this say about your sense of humor?

Verse of the Day: Philippians 3:19

"Their destiny is destruction, their god is their appetite and their glory is in their shame. Their mind is on earthly things." (NIV)

From their immoral lifestyles to their destructive habits, no one “glories in their shame” more than today’s movie, television, and rock stars. If you doubt this, tune into nearly any award show from the entertainment industry and examine how they treat moral issues. There is a very good chance they will be “glorying” in attitudes and behaviors that would cause a moral person to be shamed.

Notice also that this verse says that their destiny will be destruction. The people referred to in this verse are destroying themselves because their god is their appetite for pleasure. Notice that their shame is not that they are Satanists or axe murderers. They are shameful because their mind is focused only on earthly things.

How about you? Today’s entertainment and music are able to focus your mind. Where do they focus it? Does your entertainment focus on life from a biblical perspective or does it focus on a life based on earthly values? Scripture doesn’t say our shame is in Satanism or perversion. Our shame comes from a mind set on earthly values (one that leaves God out of the equation) instead of godly ones.

Remember, if we continue to listen to (and are entertained by) ungodly “teachers” and entertainers, we will become just like them (accept their values). What can you do to avoid meeting the same end as those whose destiny is destruction? Change your focus!

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